Wednesday, September 1, 2021

VALIDATE ME

 

It’s the monthly blog hop/ known as the Insecure Writers Support Group founded by Alex J. Cavanaugh. You’re invited to join if you're a writer, insecure, or just supportive of writers. It happens the first Wednesday of each month, and it would be sweet of you to visit at least a dozen or so new blogs and leave a comment. Your words are appreciated. Our Twitter handle is @TheIWSG and hashtag is #IWSG.   Let’s rock the neurotic writing world 

The awesome co-hosts for the September 1 posting of the IWSG are Rebecca Douglass, T. Powell Coltrin @Journaling Woman, Natalie Aguirre, Karen Lynn, and C. Lee McKenzie!

  September 1 question - How do you define success as a writer? Is it holding your book in your hand? Having a short story published? Making a certain amount of income from your writing?


I've been a copywriter for decades...

So, writing something and having it published or produced...

Always felt successful.

Not to mention getting paid was great.

But for me...

Writing a novel and getting it published meant real success. 

Two years ago... 

I pulled out an old manuscript...

Edited my heart out and self-pub’d.

Trust me...

That monumental feat alone felt successful...

As I’m sure other self-pub’d authors have felt. 

And then just the other night...

I was watching a YouTube video with my daughter...

When she said, “Mom! This is the story in your book!”

Yup! It is.

Well, truth be told...

I fictionalized parts cause that’s what we authors do, right?

But seeing the visuals... 

And hearing the voiceover telling the story...

I didn’t feel successful...

I felt validated...

That all my years of research was spot on.

Because back then...

Doing research wasn’t a simple Google click away.

So? What about you?

When do you feel success?

And is success the same as validation?

 

Always,

Em-Musing

 

In case you haven’t seen the Video Trailer for my book, Azael's Lot here it is.

?And did I miss a notification 
from Blogger that there would 
be changes to the formatting? 
It's taken me several hours to get my template back to normal. 


9 comments:

Alex J. Cavanaugh said...

Validated! That's great. Glad your daughter spotted that.

Tyrean Martinson said...

Validation, that's definitely the right word. Awesome!

L. Diane Wolfe said...

Wow, I didn't know that tale of yours was based on any real events!

Natalie Aguirre said...

Awesome that you were validated and that you shared the experience with your daughter.

Carol Kilgore said...

Ooh, I love your trailer! If I knew you'd published a book, I'd forgotten. I'm going to check it out. I don't much think about success, but I know I haven't failed.

Karen Lynn said...

Good work! Accurate research can be an enormous project. Happy IWSG Day!

Deniz Bevan said...

It's wonderful to feel validated! :-)

Julia Quay said...

Congratulations! And kudos for getting all that editing done.

Elizabeth Varadan, Author said...

Congratulations! You've accomplished a lot! I think I feel successful when I finish a new book. Finishing always feels like forever and then, "presto," out of the tunnel into the light at the end.