Thursday, March 10, 2016

PARADISE LOST?

YAY!
My sister and her husband came for a visit
It was wonderful!  
While they were here
It rained a little, was cloudy some
But mostly, the sun shone
However, every day the same question
What’s the weather gonna be?
I don’t know,” I’d say, “look outside.
But they were bothered
Kept checking their weather aps.   
I told them
I live 23 miles south of Playa del Carmen
And 105 miles south of Cancun
So the weather between here and those places
Can be very different than what’s on your ap.
Relax, I said
You’re on vacation; enjoy being unplugged.
Our excursions included beaches & cenotes
Shopping, eating, and just major fun
Always though, when we came back home
CLICK
On went the TV to a U.S. news channel  
Or the obsession with Facebook and emails.
Relax,I said
You’re on vacation; enjoy being unplugged.
And I had to keep redirecting the conversation
Away from U.S. politics.
And comparing the U.S. culture to here in Mexico.
This is not the U.S. I said
They do things differently
And it’s OK, it’s their country.
*  breathe  *  breathe * breathe *
I told myself.  
They’re new to paradise.
So? 
What about you?
Do you take your same mindset 
Wherever you go 
To a new or different place, setting, or country?
Or can you embrace the difference
And really unwind, relax and unplug
Not only your electronics
But your mind?

Always,

Em-Musing

Friday, March 4, 2016

A ROOTING INTEREST

Every story has a character 
That you like
You want good things to happen to them
If they're faced with adversity or obstacles
You have sympathy for them 
And pray they overcome whatever they have to. 
Or if you can identify with the character
You'll have empathy for them.
That’s a rooting interest in a nutshell.
If the story is in a book
And if you don’t like how it’s going
You can flip to see what happens
Or quit reading altogether.
And if it’s a movie
You can turn off the TV
Or walk out of the theater.
But when you have a real life plot
Scurrying right in your own house
A mouse in this instance
You have to deal with it
There's no page to turn
No TV to turn off or theater to leave.
So you either have to clean up blood and guts later
Or find the damn thing and
Eeeeeekkkk!
Capture it and throw it back outside.
 

                  The plot thickened 







Hmm?
Interesting!
I had to ask myself
Who am I rooting for here?
My cat who I love so he can have a snack?
Or the shaking mouse staring down at death?
I mean
Why would I care about a mouse?
I didn't know this mouse
I had no emotional bond with it.
But I did care. 
Why?
Because he was smaller?
Defenseless? 
The under-dog? 
Because he was cute? 
Naw, my cat is cute too, see?





Ultimately I felt sorry for the mouse
I put my cat in the bathroom to prevent a ruckus 
Captured the mouse and put him outside.
Ugh!
The things we do for love, eh?




So?
What about you? 
What rooting interest qualities
Do you give your characters?
Do you plot/plan to make sure they have one?
Or does it happen organically?

Always,
Em-Musing





















Indie, my muse who every other day brings in a mouse, rat, bird, bat, snake, lizard, or squirrel, and yup I've either had to clean up their guts or capture them. Oh, the fun never ends folks!

Wednesday, March 2, 2016

WORD UP


















So here it is 
My first Insecure Writer’s Support Group Post 
Hmm? 
What am I insecure about?
Words!
Words from the past
Words of my mother
Words that might come true:
“You always start things but never finish.
GULP!
Is it true?  
OK, yes, for some things
But no, not all things!
However with this writing-to-get-published thing
Here is my insecurity
That I’ll lose gusto
Won't be able to go the distance
Not send out enough queries 
Not find that agent or editor
Not do all the marketing and all the follow-up
Ya know - not get to the finish line!
I just finished reading Gregg Braden's book:
The Spontaneous Healing of Belief
It shows how your belief system
Affects your health, happiness, relationships
Well, all aspects of your life
And how visualization manifests what you want.
I guess I'm always good at seeing me published
Ya know, basking in the shine of accolades
But not seeing me doing the work to get there.
So?
Is visualization any part of your writing life?
Or any part of your life?

Always,
Em-Musing


P.S. Here's the link to the ISWG webpage 
http://www.alexjcavanaugh.com/p/the-insecure-writers-support-group.html