Wednesday, June 4, 2025

MANY. MANY YEARS AGO

 

It’s the Monthly Blog Hop for the Insecure Writers Support Group founded by Alex J. Cavanaugh

The first Wednesday of every month, an optional question is announced that members can answer in their IWSG post. These questions may prompt you to share advice, insight, a personal experience, or even a story. Include your answer to the question in your IWSG post. Remember, the question optional. Our Twitter handle is @TheIWSG and hashtag is #IWSG.

                                   Let’s rock the neurotic writing world!

The awesome co-hosts for the June 4 posting of the IWSG are PJ Colando, Pat Garcia, Kim Lajevardi, Melisa Maygrove, and Jean Davis!

JUNE 4 QUESTION — What were some books that impacted you as a child or a young adult?


It was many and many a year ago

In a kingdom by the sea

That a maiden there lived 

Whom you may know

As the writer Caron Leigh

Obviously this ditty is à la Poe's poem, Annabel Lee ...

And the maiden of course is me, Leigh Caron.

My kingdom as a kid was Long Island...

And the sea? The Atlantic. 



Back then, my mother was an avid reader...

Our living room boasted two large built-in bookcases...

Filled with "illustrated" editions of the ‘classics’...

Dickens, Hawthorn, Homer, Chaucer, Tolstoy and more.

The illustrations in Mary Shelley’s Frankenstein creeped me out. 

But it was Poe’s poems and stories that grabbed my fascination... 

And I started writing poetry at the age of 10.

Below is my first poem. aged 10 

 

            

THE NIGHTMARE OF THE OLD WINDMILL 

 

Through a field and o’er a hill,

There I found an old windmill.

 

Deserted of course, I went inside,

Thirty feet long and twenty feet wide.

 

Would make a good hideout, don't you think?

A candle for light and a basin for a sink?

 

Out of the mill and down the hill,

Through the field I race.

Into the house and into my room,

With such a goodly pace.

 

To tell my pets, to tell my dolls,

On my bedroom shelf,

 

To tell my friends, Maggie and Joe,

And of course to tell myself.

 

Through the field and up the hill,

And into the old windmill,

 

There I find in the window

A head upon the sill.

 

It's coming closer and closer to me,

Above the head my mother I see.

 

Out of the mill and down the hill

Through the field I fall.

 

Now I hear the breakfast call.

 

The morning sun fell on my bed,

When I think of the dream, I dread.

 

Through the field and over the hill,

The nightmare of the old windmill.

 

My sister Christine was a sophomore in high school then... 

And she entered it in a school contest under her name...

My mother, bless her heart, was complicit... 

She added punctuation and corrected spelling errors. 

My first reaction was to be mad at my sister for stealing it...

But hey! It won first place!

And that's when I knew... 

I wanted to be a writer when I grew up.

So?

What books impacted you as a child or young adult?


Always, 

Em-Musing

Wednesday, May 7, 2025


 It’s the Monthly Blog Hop for the Insecure Writers Support Group founded by Alex J. Cavanaugh

The first Wednesday of every month, an optional question is announced that members can answer in their IWSG post. These questions may prompt you to share advice, insight, a personal experience, or even a story. Include your answer to the question in your IWSG post. Remember, the question optional. 

 OurTwitter handle is @The IWSG and hashtag is #IWSG

Let's rock the neurotic writing world


The awesome hosts today are: Feather Stone, Janet Alcorn, Rebecca Douglass,Jemima Pett , and Pat Garcia!

Question for May 7. Some common fears writers share are: rejection, failure, success, and lack of talent or ability. What are your greatest fears as a writer? How do you manage them?

 

 

Marketing!

If your an agented author...

Or if you have a publisher...

Some of the marketing will be done for you. 

And sometimes... 

They’ll do a good portion of it.

But it also falls on the author to do their part... 

Even if you’ve written one hellava book...

If you don’t market it well...

Your sales will suffer.

Some years ago...

I worked in an Advertising & Marketing agency 

I enjoyed planning campaigns...

And I did it well—for clients.

But now...

Doing it for myself

With all the social media platforms out there...

Marketing shouldn’t be so daunting...

Yet....

It it's overwhelming...

And I feel like a big cry baby

I don’t want to do it!

I'd rather write! 

But then...

does baby want a shot of tequila?

My adult self kicks in and reminds me...

Marketing is the key to success... 

With any product or service...

So put your big girl panties on...

And just do it!

So?

What are your fears?

 

Always,

Em-Musing

 

 





Wednesday, April 23, 2025

SCOR!!!

If it crawls…

It dies!

That’s my motto for anything I see on my floor.

I knew when I moved into a jungle setting…

That critters of all types would be around…

But even after hiring a professional exterminator…

Some varmints prefer the odds of living with the Loca Gringa!

You’d think word would get out in jungleland that…

I kill scorpions with a butcher knife.

Bwah hah hah!

Like the big black one I saw this morning…

That was sashaying down my hallway… 


Did it have no respect?

And I’ll admit…

I thought about sweeping it outside…

But feared that I’d miss, and the six-inch-long

beast would run and hide somewhere in my house.


So…

Dun, dun, dunnnnnn….

I ran, got the butcher knife and…

WHACK!

Trust me, I never miss a kill.

And if you ask me…

Scorpions are either stupid or blind...

Because unlike the spiders…

Who see me coming and scurry away.

Scorpions just sit there until…

Dun, dun dunnnnnn…

WHACK!

Bwah ha ha!

So?

Are you a great hunter of beasts that enter in your house?

And what kind of beasts?

 

Always, 

Em-Musing

Wednesday, April 9, 2025

WRITER INTERUPTUS


If you’re a writer

There’s a condition that only writers get

Every writer! 

No matter where you live

No matter who you are

Every writer gets this condition

Including me. 

For years I’ve tried to get rid of it

But no luck

It’s called

WRITER INTERUPTUS.

I know you know what I’m talking about

You sit down to write when:

The phone rings, your pet wants to eat or needs to go out,

You have errands to do, another episode of Netlix beckons, taking a nap sounds like heaven, your stomach growls, you're staving, (there’s only so many bowls of cereal one can eat)

your mind can’t stay focused, you need to pay some bills, your family needs you, etc., etc., etc.

So for years,

I kept getting up earlier and earlier 

Now I’m up at 4:30 a.m. 

But even then I get

WRITER INTERUPTUS

I read once that J.K. Rowlings would go to the Balmoral hotel in Edinburgh to write

I soooo get that

Because when you're at a hotel, and you have the will power 

To turn off your phone and not turn on the TV

There'll be no

WRITER INTERUPTUS

Only room service.

So?

Do you suffer from WRITER INTERUPTUS?

What interrupts you?

And what's your cure?

 

Always,

Em-Musing

Saturday, April 5, 2025

TO FRIENDS

 

Lost a dear friend yesterday...

Thirty years of laughter, tears, and confidences shared...

Plus all the other ups, downs, and upside downs of life.

Time may heal all wounds...

But time doesn’t make mourning a death easier on the heart.

When I lost my sister, my soul mate, years ago...

This saying came to me


I don’t want to down the gauntlet of emotions 

to get to the other side of sorrow.


Will miss you, Maryann...my dear friend 

If there are martinis on the other side… 

Salud!

 

Always,

Em-Musing

 

 

 

Wednesday, April 2, 2025

SEA SAW

It’s the Monthly Blog Hop for the Insecure Writers Support Group founded by Alex J. Cavanaugh

The first Wednesday of every month, an optional question is announced that members can answer in their IWSG post. These questions may prompt you to share advice, insight, a personal experience, or even a story. Include your answer to the question in your IWSG post.  Our Twitter handle is @TheIWSG and hashtag is                                           #IWSG.  Let’s rock the neurotic writing world

                The awesome co-hosts for the April 2 posting of the IWSG are Jennifer Lane, L Diane Wolfe, Jenni Enzor, and  Natalie Aguirre! 

 

April 2 question:  What fantasy character would you like to fight, go on a quest with, or have a beer/glass of wine with?  Remember, the question is optional. 

 

You’re asking me to go to Fantasy Land?

Okay, I’ll play.

When I looked at DC's &  Marvel's list of superheroes...

Which, by the way, there are lots and LOTS of them.

It was fins down for...

AQUAMAN!



Ummm, but not this version from 1941.  


 
Not this one either from  1989 
















Mmmm this one!

I’m guessing we’d be underwater together a lot (yes!)

So he would have to figure out a way for me to breath underwater.

Mouth to mouth would be lovely... 

But I don’t think we’d get very far.

I’d love to have him take me down... 

To the depths of the deep blue... 

And see the lost continent of Atlantis...

And other civilizations that have been lost to the sea.

I’d want to see sunken pirate ships (no bones please)...

And deep-sea creatures... 

Not seen except with vessels like the Triton.

And I wouldn’t want any conflicts...

Because what if he lost a battle?

(I know that'd be impossible) 

But if did happen...

I’d be down under water by myself...

And who knows what would happen to me?

But maybe...just maybe...

I'd develop a super power of my own and save myself...

And I'd become—AQUAWRITER... 

And write about all the glory and mysteries of the sea.

Don't laugh. It's my fantasy and, in it, it could happen.

So...

What about you? 

Which fantasy character do you choose to do something with?

And what are you doing?


Always, 

Em-Musing

 



 

Wednesday, March 5, 2025

- 24 little hours

 

It’s the Monthly Blog Hop for the Insecure Writers Support Group founded by Alex J. Cavanaugh

The first Wednesday of every month, an optional question is announced that members can answer in their IWSG post. These questions may prompt you to share advice, insight, a personal experience, or even a story. Include your answer to the question in your IWSG post. Remember, the question optional. 

Let’s rock the neurotic writing world!
Our Twitter handle is @TheIWSG and hashtag is #IWSG.

 

The awesome co-hosts for the March 5 posting of the IWSG are Ronel Janse Van Vuuren, Pat Garcia, and Liza @ Middle Passages!

 

March 5 question - If for one day you could be anyone or *thing* in the world, what would it be? Describe, tell why, and any themes, goals, or values they/it inspire in you.


If I could be “anything”...

I’d be the Universe...


During my 24 hours...

My mind would expand to understand everything... 

I’d learn all the Universes’ secrets... 

I’d see other creations...

On other planets in other galaxies...

When and how they came into being...

What life forms were/are there...

I’d see the Past, Present, and Future of earth...

But wait...

On second thought...

I wouldn’t want to see the future of earth... 

If we’re going to go BOOM!

So instead... 

If I could be “anyone”... 

I ‘d be a super-duper Fairy Godmother...


I would make everyone’s dream come true...                                              
As long it was legal, moral, and ethical...

But there’d be a couple of catches... 

1) You could go back in time to view or relive moments but you couldn’t change anything because that could alter         other’s lives.

2) Your dream would expire after 24 hours.


Me?

I’d go back in time to my first kiss

But not the awkward teenage kiss with braces and pimples...

The real one... 

When I’m kissing the first person I fell in love with... 

Yeah...

I would replay that one as many times in 24 hours as I could...

Because no other kiss compares.

And you?

Who or what would you be?

 

Always, 

Em-Musing